— [https://goo.gl/kEVHza] If two or more people or things are on a collision course, they are likely to meet and crash into each other violently:_______________________My students at the Upper Secondary School are getting ready for the Mock exam!

:: RT: Collision course ▶ https://goo.gl/tCxiwz ◀, Definition: If two or more people or things are on a collision course, there is likely to be a sudden and violent disagreement between them, they are likely to meet and crash into each other violently.

Example: "The proposal on age limits for gun purchases will put the president on a collision course with the National Rifle Association, which endorsed him and donated to his White House campaign." Source: The Guardian/ https://goo.gl/rcxPXr

Sometimes we say or do something that puts us on a collision course with someone else, and a confrontation might seem inevitable. It is this moment of conflict - after it has begun but before it has developed into a full-blown battle - that students should reflect upon. At the heart of many conflicts, we find colliding ideas, values, and beliefs.

Growing Up in the #MeToo Movement/ Photo: Graciella Delgado

▶ #MeToo. It’s time we became the change ◀


Times of India, Nov 21, 2017
By Pranjali Kulkarni

Indian society often boasts of its rich culture. This culture is so deeply ingrained, that it is very hard to change it. But parts of it must be modified because it is not okay to be “okay” with it all anymore. It is not okay to suffer in silence; it is not okay if you have to be behind a dupatta every time your cousin visits; it is not okay to stay at home after six in the evening because you are scared and it is not okay if someone makes you feel weak because of gender.

Our culture always associates a sense of shame with any sexual offence. But the shame is only for the victim — it continues to haunt.

The Nirbhaya case shocked the nation. It brought thousands of people together, who said “enough is enough.” Thousands took part in marches, shouting slogans, and demanding change — a change in not just the law but also mindsets. People wanted to say that wearing lipstick or short skirts were not an invitation to rape. They wanted a change, so that women were no longer expected to hide their faces to avoid harassment.

Did that change come? Not entirely. We read about rapes every day in the newspaper, we see reports on TV. It has all been normalized, again.

That is the real problem. The day we stop having a problem with things we should be having a problem with, is the day the actual problem starts. [...]

One victim I interacted with, a college student from Bangalore, said: “I was travelling by Metro one evening and had worn my bag in the front because of a broken zipper. After a few minutes, I felt someone’s hand on top of mine, where I was holding the handle for support. I took my hand away, assuming it was an innocent brush. But the next minute, I realized that a man behind me had crept up close. He was breathing down my neck and his hands were feeling up my waist. He was pulling my body close to his. I tried pushing him away, but he didn’t stop. When the train’s doors opened for the next station, I ran out. It was very crowded. There were a lot of people around me, but I couldn’t ask for help. I could not get myself to say anything. I was shocked that something like this was actually happening with me.” [...]

A working professional in Pune said: “I am all for campaigns and discussions. But what is it really going to change? This isn’t something that is new to our society. I feel we must be cautious, rather than expecting the world to behave.”

We cannot expect societies and mindsets to change overnight. That just won’t happen. But that does not mean that we stop trying. If we want a better India, we need to start working towards that goal.



Oprah Winfrey Full Powerful Speech on #MeToo, January 2018.





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